People say a lot of things. Saying something has no cost. Words are cheap. Doing something takes time. It takes effort. It takes consideration and thought. Doing something requires investment and commitment. Therefore, if you want to know what people actually think about something or someone, watch what they do, not what they say. The mother who professes her love for her children daily, but neglects their needs is not a loving mother, no matter how many times she says it. The lover who professes their love for you with zeal and passion, but lets you down time after time, does not truly love you.
Listen to actions, not words